How Often to Give Pretending People Another Chance

Sometimes you might see a Pretending Person do something that is very surprising. They might impel you to do or not do something, make up a Care Control Reason, or something even more unexpected than those. The result is that it harms your relationship and trust in them, and harms your potential to do good and maybe even their own potential to do good.

When you make a mistake like that, you usually realize it after thinking about it. You would want your dear ones to give you another chance to try it again. Since you don’t want to treat the Pretending Person like they are not smart enough to figure it out, you keep on giving them more chances. Surely they will figure it out if they take some time to think about it? But, when you keep on doing it, it seems they do not rethink it! You get really tired and drained from giving them another chance all the time. How often should you give them another chance?

Try doubling the gap between the times you gave them another chance:

Hopefully, someone realizes something and changes their ways, or hopefully, you will know the words to talk about it someday, instead of giving them more chances.

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